I was born in Springfield, Ohio, a cozy Midwest suburb with a small-town heart and big-city charm. Just a short drive from Dayton and Columbus, Springfield is a place of tree-lined streets, friendly neighbors, and summers filled with county fairs and backyard cookouts. Growing up there, I experienced a mix of laid-back living and inspiration, a perfect balance of peaceful and playful.
My early life was challenging, and I don’t maintain contact with my biological family. I’ve learned that family is defined not by DNA, but by love, trust, and respect. Today, I’m surrounded by my chosen family, a circle of supportive and genuine people who uplift one another. This principle guided me even as I made the life-changing decision to join the U.S. Army.
I enlisted shortly after graduating from South High School. At the time, I was in an abusive relationship that had escalated to a dangerous level. I realized that if I didn’t make a change, I might not survive. Joining the military became my lifeline, a chance to reclaim control, find purpose, and build a new life. My parents doubted I could handle the discipline of military life, but the very traits they questioned, my independence and determination, became my greatest strengths.
Before entering the Army, I held a variety of jobs that taught me resilience and adaptability. From fast food and waitressing to telemarketing and grocery cashiering, these roles helped me develop patience, people skills, and a strong work ethic. Looking back, these early experiences prepared me more than I realized for the challenges of military service.
I joined the Army with a desire to embrace a challenge. My first choice had been the Marines, but due to scoliosis, I was ineligible. I redirected my focus to the Army and obtained a waiver after extensive chiropractic treatment reduced my spinal curve. I was ready to start a journey of growth, discipline, and transformation.
Basic Combat Training at Fort Jackson, South Carolina, was both physically and mentally grueling. I vividly remember standing in formation, drenched in sweat, exhausted yet feeling stronger and more determined than ever. Marching in cadence with fellow recruits created a profound sense of unity. Advanced Individual Training at Fort Gordon, Georgia, prepared me as a 75C Telecommunications Operator, teaching me to operate and maintain complex communication systems. These experiences built my confidence, adaptability, and resilience.
One instructor in particular left a lasting impression, a female drill instructor whose strength, composure, and authority inspired me to embrace my own potential as a woman in the military. Her example showed me that I could be strong, capable, and respected without losing my sense of self.
My first assignment took me to Camp Humphreys, South Korea, where I immersed myself in a new culture, explored historic sites, and met people from around the world. Later, I served at the Pentagon in the National Military Command Center, supporting critical operations and providing information to active warzones during Operation Iraqi Freedom. While I wasn’t in direct combat, these roles taught me the gravity of military service and the importance of precision, teamwork, and adaptability.
During my service, I earned multiple awards, including the Army Achievement Medal, Army Good Conduct Medal, National Defense Service Medal, Global War on Terrorism Service Medal, Army Service Ribbon, and the Joint Chiefs of Staff Identification Badge. These accolades reflected my dedication, professionalism, and contributions in both combat support and operational roles.
Military life brought challenges. I had to quickly learn new skills, adapt to unfamiliar tasks, and overcome self-doubt. The wartime simulations, long drills, and high-pressure scenarios tested every part of me. Yet, these experiences taught perseverance, mental toughness, and discipline, qualities that have guided me in civilian life. At the same time, I discovered a love of culture while adapting to life in Korea, forging friendships, and embracing diverse perspectives.
Leaving the Army was a turning point. I had endured the profound loss of my firstborn child and welcomed my second, inspiring me to focus on family and building a meaningful life outside the military. I remained at the Pentagon in civilian roles for 20 years, supporting national security missions, while also pursuing higher education using the GI Bill. I earned an Associate’s degree in Network Systems Administration and a Bachelor’s degree in Technical Business Management, balancing studies with work and family life.
The friendships and camaraderie I formed during my service remain a vital part of my life. My time in the military shaped how I relate to others, emphasizing teamwork, trust, empathy, and effective communication. I also joined Veteran organizations like Alpha Mu Beta Military Sorority Inc., where I mentor, support fellow Veterans, and volunteer in the community.
Reflecting on my service, I recognize both the challenges and the profound growth it provided. I experienced anxiety, PTSD, and physical strain, yet the Army taught me resilience, discipline, and the strength of the human spirit. I also witnessed the complexity of military life, understanding that service members often face unseen hardships long after leaving the battlefield.
The lessons I carry forward include perseverance, adaptability, and the courage to advocate for myself and others. I’ve learned that failure is part of success and that facing life’s challenges head-on leads to personal growth. I want future generations to understand that Veterans carry both visible and invisible wounds and that their sacrifices extend far beyond active duty. Compassion, recognition, and support are essential for honoring those who served.
Most of all, I am proud of the life I’ve built, one defined by resilience, love, and purpose. My military service shaped me into someone who can face adversity with strength, embrace growth, and contribute meaningfully to family, community, and country. My story is a testament to the power of determination, courage, and the human spirit to overcome challenges and thrive. Through sharing my story, I hope to inspire others, honor those who served alongside me, and provide insight into the journey of a Veteran. Life after service can be challenging, but it also offers opportunities for growth, connection, and purpose. My journey reminds us that strength isn’t just surviving, it’s thriving, adapting, and helping others along the way.
Attributed to Kimberly Vega
